Kelene Chong Xuan Yi, 14

School: CHIJ Secondary

Topic: An email to encourage a student from your school

Award: Merit, Junior Category, 2025

Dear Emily, 

I cannot begin to express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Hearing about the passing of your father in the tragic accident broke my heart, and I can only imagine the immense pain, shock, and sorrow you must be feeling right now. I want to tell you that I am thinking of you and your family during this incredibly difficult time, and I am here for you in whatever way you need. 

Losing someone so dear is one of the hardest things anyone can go through. There are no words that can truly ease the weight of grief, but please know that you are not alone. You have people who care about you, who love you, and who want to support you in this time of mourning. If there is anything I can do whether it’s simply being there to listen, offering comfort, or helping in practical ways, please don’t hesitate to reach out. You don’t have to go through this by yourself. 

Though nothing can take away the pain of losing your father, I hope that, in time, you can find some solace in the incredible legacy he has left behind. The decision he made to donate his organs was truly a selfless act of kindness, one that has given the gift of life to others in need. It is a rare and beautiful thing to be able to bring hope to others, even in passing, and I have no doubt that the lives your father has touched will forever be changed because of his generosity. Somewhere out there, families who were once facing heartbreak now have renewed hope, all because of the love and compassion your father carried within him. 

Grief is a journey one that does not have a set timeline or a perfect way to navigate. Some days will be heavier than others, and there may be moments when the loss feels overwhelming. But please remember that you don’t have to carry this weight alone. Your friends, your loved ones, and all those who care about you are here to hold you up when you need strength. It is okay to grieve in your own way, to take your time, to honor the memory of your father however you need to. 

I hope that, as time passes, the pain of this loss will be softened by the beautiful memories you shared. Your father may no longer be physically present, but the love, kindness, and impact he had on this world will never fade. He will always be a part of you, living on through the love he gave, the moments he cherished, and the lives he has touched including yours. 

Please take care of yourself during this difficult time. If there is anything at all that I can do whether it’s just sitting with you, listening, helping with school, or simply being there you don’t have to hesitate to ask. You are in my thoughts and prayers, and I am sending you my deepest condolences, love, and support. 

With all my sympathy,

Kelene

Disclaimer: Please note that the views and opinions expressed in the essays for the Live On Festival 2025 are those of the participants and are not endorsed by the National Organ Transplant Unit (Ministry of Health).

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