Ong Shi Jia, 14

School: Edgefield Secondary School

Topic: An email to encourage a student from your school

Award: High Distinction, Junior Category, 2025

Dear Paedyn, 

Hi, I am Shi Jia, your CCA senior. 

I am writing to express my deepest condolences for the loss of your beloved father. I understand that this is a difficult time for you and your family. 

Yesterday, I came across an article which shared about your father selflessly donating his organs to save not one – but six lives. Your father’s altruism, kindness and bravery touched my family and my heart. We unanimously agreed that he was truly a man to be remembered, one whose generosity gave six others a second chance at life, a new beginning, which is nothing short of heroic. 

I’d be honest that I was hesitant about the idea of organ donation itself and found it unsettling and morbid. However, when your father’s story got to me, it compelled me to reflect and completely changed my perspective of organ donation. I once read an article about a recipient who expressed his heartfelt gratitude to his donor, that now he was able to see his newborn daughter grow up, a second chance at life, which he thought was nearly impossible. Your father truly made a tangible difference in the lives of others. He helped one see the world and reminded another how it felt to breathe properly. 

Knowing that one could give so much even when they were ready to leave this world is truly touching. 

By giving the miracle of life to six individuals. Six families were given hope. Many millions out there changed their mindset on organ donation. 

I know words will never be enough, and I may not be able to fully understand your grief, nor am I the closest to you, please know that I will always be here for you. Whether you need someone to talk to, to keep you company, or simply sit in silence with, I will be there. Never forget that there are people out there who care greatly about you, and you are never alone. You have all of our backs and shoulders to cry on if you ever need it, so please do not hesitate to approach us should you need any help. 

Always remember the hero your father is, and the countless lives he had touched. His memory lives on not just in your heart, but the heart that continues to beat because of him. 

Remember that it’s okay to cry. It’s okay to feel overwhelming sadness. It’s okay to feel anger. And it’s okay to feel pride. These emotions are valid, they are just reflections of the deep love you had for your father. Don’t be scared to let all your feelings out. 

As someone once said, “The idea is not about living forever but letting another live longer.” 

Your father did exactly that. He is and will always be a hero in all of our hearts. Never forget that. 

Yours sincerely,

Shi Jia

Disclaimer: Please note that the views and opinions expressed in the essays for the Live On Festival 2025 are those of the participants and are not endorsed by the National Organ Transplant Unit (Ministry of Health).

To learn more about organ donation and organ transplantation in Singapore, please visit www.liveon.gov.sg